i love him so much and cant live without him and obey his all orders and want to marry him in future and want from him that he also loves me but he avoids me and even didnot talk with me . what should i do?
Hafsa I truly understand your love and devotion to this man. Maybe he is the man of your dreams, your prince charming. This can be worked out for the better. For starters keep talking to him about how you feel. Communication is key to any relationship. I am sure he is a nice guy but he has communicate with you at some point, because down the line in the future you will feel so alone and unhappy.
I don't know how long he has been giving you the cold shoulder but don't cut him loose just yet. Give him a little time and maybe he will open up to you. He may be going through some issues personally and just doesn't feel like talking about things at the moment. However if he continues to not make you happy, you can't wait forever and a day to fulfill your needs.
You should be his queen and he should be your king.
Let me know how this all works out. Have patience but don't wait 20 years to find out you made the wrong choice.