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Consequences of Domestic Violence
Emotional Abuse
Domestic Violence: Love Don't HurtIt is very disheartening to have witnessed and hear stories of domestic violence over my years. The Chris Brown and Rhiana situation was somewhat a shock to me, now when you look at Chris Brown you don't think woman beater. But it goes to show you that just like a pedophile an attacker has no specific face or body make-up. 
I don't want to be a Chris Brown basher but this is a great opportunity to take a good look at ourselves as a whole. Why are men and women fighting each other? Why is there such a disrespect for one another? What happened to love and cherishment? How does this happen so often?
Well it is easy to play the blame game but it is actually both fault, men and women in most cases. If a man beats on a woman he is insecure and not a man at all, and if a woman keeps coming back she is also insecure and probably doesn't love herself, or has insecurity issues. I have heard everything from he's not always like this, I love him, and I'm trying to keep my family together. In any case you enabling him. How can a man beat on a woman if there's no woman to beat? Look at your situation and only your situation. If you don't like being beaten then leave before it's too late. Some say,"I'm scared he's going to kill me." Well if you stay eventually he's going to kill you anyway, so like Nike just do it. For women who have kids in the situation and are trying to keep the family together. You don't want your little boy to grow up and think it's okay to beat women, or little girl to think it's just fine to be beat. In this case it is even more a case to get out because you aren't just affecting your life but also the life and future lives of your kids. When and if daddy gets himself together he can come visit.
On Oprah I she had a show focused on domestic violence, and on that show a young teenage girl stated that Rhiana deserved what she got. I couldn't believe my ears but that is just the day we live in. No one deserves to be beat like that. I mean love stings sometimes but that was a big ass bee. But obviously that young lady is completely misguided and totally doesn't get that this is a serious matter. Women are killed by killed by strangers everyday, but so many more are killed by people they know. So domestic violence is a huge issue, whether you understand it or not. I'm not saying that men who abuse women can't change but it's harder to do with you in the situation. You can't make him change anyway, he has to change himself. This is bigger and deeper than you. Step back and cherish your life and body, because he doesn't. I myself could never beat, abuse, and dehumanize something so beautiful as a woman.
Love Yourself And Others Will Love You The Same WayBy Nicholas Mintz
Domestic Violence Center
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