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Cheating Men And The Reasons Why?

Are all me cheating men? Well I admit there's a lot of cheating that goes on in relationships these days. Sometimes I think to myself, why? I mean I see beautiful, good-hearted women getting cheated on all of the time. And believe it or not, many times these women stick around their men in hopes that they will change their ways and stay faithful.

Sometimes a cheater will always be always be a cheater. And sometimes cheating men really do turn a new leaf and realize the wrong in their ways. And yes women, there are actually men out there who don't cheat at all. Some women don't believe this because they are involved with one unfaithful man after another. Well ladies you either are not learning from previews mistakes or you are continuously dating the same type of guy. In any case there men that don't cheat. I happen to know because I am one of them.

I am allergic to cheating.

But let's get down to why cheating men cheat. And for the record, there can many reasons for this and we are here to explore them. Maybe exploring the why can help you in your current or future situation.

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1) Genetics

It's true that men have high testosterone levels and some men just can't help themselves. It's like they just can't help it. Looking and fantasizing turns to flirting, which turns to....well you get the point.

Pappa was a rolling stone.

2) The Exciting Chase

Some of us men just can't stop chasing the women. It is an extreme excitement, it's a total rush. You have men out there who like the challenge of seeing if they still have the magic touch. You also have cheating men that wanna see how many partners they can have in numbers and every partner is another thrill and excitement for them.

3) Because They Can

Men will also cheat to test the relationship to see how far they can go. Most women will take you back if you have only cheated once. But if a man knows that a woman is serious about leaving, he will try his best not to cheat if he really cares.

But if you have a situation where he keeps being unfaithful and you take him back every time he will continue to cheat.

Therefore he will do so because he can. If you don't put your foot down he will continue to do his dirt, whether you know it or not.

4) The Thrill Of Not Being Caught

This is probably one of the more popular reasons in the cheating game. It is just a thrill for some cheating men to have different relationships without any of them knowing of one another.

They like to brag about things like this to their friends of course. To show that they an extreme player or something. This happens a lot and the stories of the unknown are always unbelievable to hear about.

5) No Love At Home?

If you are a woman who doesn't want to give it up for various reasons beware that your man may be getting it elsewhere. It can be because you are celibate, have an attitude or mad about something, or you may be a virgin. But either way some guys will wait and others won't.

I can wait for you for months but I can't do years. I'm sorry.

6) Like Lays, Can't Just Have One

These cheating men can't seem to stay with one woman faithfully because they want a taste of variety. They want their cake and they want to eat it too. They say things like,"I can't drive the same car forever, so why would I be with the same woman forever."

In other words they always want some new pu**y. Out with the old in with the new.

7) Revenge

It can be for retaliation for your cheating mistake and they're getting you back for it. Two wrongs don't make a right, but it feels great for them to make you feel how you made them feel.

8) Previous Relationship

A man can also become a member of the cheating men club because of what my have happened in a previous relationship. I know of some guys who have had relationships end in heartbreak and vow to take it out on all future women. It's true.

9) Under The Influence

This is such a popular reason as well as excuse. I mean ladies how many times how you heard, "I was drunk baby, I didn't even know what happened?" I've heard guys say that they were in a drunken sleep and was taken advantage of, in other words raped. In some cases it turned out to be true.

10) An Argument

An argument can really get someone's emotions out of wack sometimes. I mean you guys are mad at each other and he goes outside and winds up being consoled by another female.

So that's why women always try to block the door. Because they know if we leave, we might not come back the same way we left.

11) Peer Pressure

Yes peer pressure. He may have a friend who is always trying to get him to join in his cheating or single ways. He can resist temptation many times but it is always possible to slip up and join the crowd.

12) Love Is Lost

He may have just fell out of love for you and is looking elsewhere and loving another. In essence the love he once had for you has dwindled and in his mind it is near the end of the road.

Last but not least...........

Communication To me communication is the key to any relationship being successful. This goes for men and women, because we can't just go around reading each others mind. We have to communicate and be more open with each other.

Cheating men are here to stay. The only question is if women will stay with them.

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